Every boyfriend is “The One” until proven otherwise, right? Well you’ve been proven otherwise, it’s time to move the hell on. When you take a step back and realize the bad outweighs the good and you’ve exhausted every option with no resolution, it’s time to pack up. You might even start to bargain with yourself like “Ill try this one last time and maybe If I lost some weight, maybe if I was more supportive, maybe if I was more positive or kept my mouth closed and ignored red flags things will be different”, No. there’s nothing you can do to better yourself for someone else. You can be the most loyal, attractive, honest and affectionate girl in the world, you can be “Perfect” and you will still never be good enough for someone who doesn’t want it. Maybe it’s not the time, maybe you should take some time and do you while he does him and eventually if you end up together that shit will be beautiful. The one thing that hold us back from moving on is the fear that we’ll move on, the fear that this amazing feeling that I’m feeling is gonna be over for good and you’ll be able to walk past that me without a thought and no one around us will know that at one point we were fucking crazy about each other, right? The bright side is having no feelings for someone is better then constantly being consumed by a broken relationship. The truth of the matter is a break up is never a one way street, one of you fucked up too much, took too much, and didn’t appreciate shit, and the other gave too much, blamed too much, complained too much and allowed it. Maybe he’ll get a new girl, let him, let her exhaust herself trying to make him a better man for another woman, The art of letting go is realizing what was, what it is, why it can never be and walking the fuck away while you still have a ounce of pride. Take some time and cry all you want, for months if you have to, but just make sure when you’re finished crying, you never cry over the same thing again. Grow.